Do you lose yourself in love relationship?
Do you get anxious and worried often about whether or not your relationship is secure?
Do you struggle with codependency?
Do you find yourself seeking the highs of new love relationships (or "situationships") or to experience lows soon after?
Are you ready to commit to someone you actually love and want to be with long-term?
If you are in that relationship already (or have been in it before) are you ready to free yourself of the self-sabotage that is keeping your from being the beautiful and empowered version of yourself that you started out as?
Do you fear abandonment or that if you don't get your sh** figured out soon you will be left?
Do you feel like you have to heal more before love will work out for you?
Do you have a hard time trusting yourself, your partner, and your relationship?
Do you feel responsible for your partner's moods and feelings?
Do you fear that you will never be in a healthy relationship?
Are you struggling in a current relationship or asking yourself if this is the "right guy for you"?
The 'Cinderella Complex' is a deep subconscious as well as superficial program that causes women to believe, "When I meet the right person, I will live happily ever after." Even if this belief is in you at the smallest level, it is likely working against your ability to attract a powerful man into your life or get to the point of deep intimacy, satisfaction, and love that is available in your current relationship.
The Cinderella Complex may cause you to:
- Hyper focus on relationship as being the source of your happiness and satisfaction
- Feel extremely sad if you are not in a relationship yet or are struggling with your current partner
- Fall into codependent tendencies such as feeling overly responsible for the people around youLose yourself into a form of relationship addiction
- Feel consumed with maintaining the security of your relationship and getting the fix of safety and connection from your partner
- Avoid doing the true inner work that is necessary to heal your attachment wounds and step into the highest version of yourself
This belief is a conditioning that may be holding you back from taking full responsibility of your life, love, and happiness and blocking you from your ability to manifest your dreams!
Committed love in a relationship with another person is a mirror for the commitment we have toward ourselves: We avoid true love with ourselves and then wonder why we are not experiencing it on the outside in our love relationships.
How often do we abandon ourselves?
How often do we look away and leave ourselves, avoid responsibility, or blame others when feeling confusion, illusion, or discomfort WITHIN?!
How many times have we abandoned others or fear someone abandoning us when things get hard in a relationship?
Do you see the connection?
The challenges that come up in committed relationship are not always a sign that you are with the wrong person. Your wounds and patterns don’t “go away” when you meet the “RIGHT” person! The issues that come up are issues that have likely existed in you far before you met this person. The only difference is that when in relationship there are opportunities to dive in, distract, or dive out. The patterns you carry from relationship to relationship (or situationship to situationship) are yours to heal and clear so you can reveal the love that is waiting for you.
Truly commit to yourself (and strengthen all of your relationships because of it!)
Stop abandoning yourself to please others
Clear resentment and authentically give and receive love
Take care of yourself when the emotional or energetic environment around you is not in your control
Harness your power of sensitivity and emotion to create closeness not chaos
Learn how to have boundaries and communicate through physical space, loving silence, and effective words (rather than just through tears and emotion)
Clear patterns of codependency
Clear the subtle or strong patterns of love and relationship addiction that consume your heart and mind and prevent you from living your life!
Let go of self-sabotage
Create a truly committed love "Divine Love" relationship
Heal while you're IN relationship rather than just when you’re single
Access the Alchemy of Love
Transmute your dysfunctional conditioning and heal your wounds through the Chamber of Love
Attract committed-relationship oriented men rather than open-relationship oriented men
Attract someone who WANTS a committed relationship and is available for it
Stay connected to yourself and your desires while in love (stop losing yourself in love!)
Stay balanced, empowered, confident, and magnetic
Move from manipulation to magnetism to get your needs met
Clear your trust issues and fears of intimacy
Honor your avoidant or anxious attachment styles and move toward secure attachments!
Move from codependent —> interdependent
Move from addicted —> trusting
Move from consumed —> free
Move from anxious —> secure
Leaning in (to relationship) vs. leaning into Selfyes anya, I would like to join!